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Thursday, July 14, 2011

Girl's Chat: Relationships

Hola!!

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Oh boy!, I forgot how depressing dating could be.   I was never really a dater.... I definitely had more long-term than short-term relationships.  I fell in love, I fell out of love, I have had my heart broken, and I have broken a few hearts too.....  but regardless, every time a relationship ends and fails, It's just discouraging.  On top of that, the older you get, the more selective you become.  To me it is not about finding Mr. Right (cuz there is no such thing).... but it is about finding a quality man (a man with values).... and most importantly, it is about finding a quality guy who I am crazy in love with..... plain and simple.  In the meantime however, it is all about me =)

My sister shared this on her facebook page the other day... "the only relationship that matters is the relationship you have with yourself"....so true!!  This post is about empowering ourselves....   so, what I wanted to share with you is the book "Why Men loves Bitches" that has helped me (and many of my friends...MANY) so much.  I hope you are open mind about it, because I wasn't at first, but then I'm glad I changed my mind ;)

I know that the title makes it sound like a plain dating book..... and it is, but it is also so much more than that.  It's about relationships and how women "us" often end up caring too much, often forgetting about ourselves.  Definitely a must read in my opinion.  You can read chapter One if you click "click to look inside".  




Here is nice quote from the book...

Principle #80

"The ability to choose how you want to live, and the ability  to choose how you want to be treated are the two things that give you more power than any material object ever will" 




XOXO
Carmen

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